Is it a red flag if a guy is hitting me up everyday for sex really late at night talking like 10PM-11PM late?.

Umm really depends, do you like having casual sex with him/want to?

I don’t mind it its just the fact he said he wants something serious but never bothers to see me in the morning always late night.

It’s not that serious if he’s just msging for a booty call 👀

@MidnightBlue yeah clearly he is lying about wanting something serious but if you're fine with keeping it casual then it works out I think

You would consider it a red flag he lied about wanting something serious?? Idk I feel kinda led on

Always think you need to trust your gut in these situations, especially when it’s very early days. Sounds like his words and actions are not aligning. If you feel like he’s leading you on then he most likely is, do what’s best for you

Yeah I would consider that a red flag, regardless if you are only wanting something casual or not - it’s rude to just hit you up that late for sex - you aren’t an object or on stand by. I’d tell him to F off

I wouldn’t have sex (casual or not) with anyone who is disrespectful & that I can’t trust. Men should not be getting away with this behaviour

I mean it just depends on what you’re okay with. Causal sex is cool sometimes! And totally okay. But if you’re wanting something deeper, probs not the one hun.

@MidnightBlue I’d say yes, if he’s just messaging you at night it’s just for sex. But if he says he wants something serious, then challenge him. Next time he messages you, say you can’t but you’ll love to get coffee in the morning or lunch tomorrow afternoon (3pm) ish. If it bothers you stop seeing him but if you’re down for the FWB I guess be aware he isn’t actually trying to be serious?

@Awg1 FACTS 🔥