hey so super tmi, but is it normal to just not enjoy masturbation?

I definitely feel like everyone will have their own experiences and feelings with masturbating. Some enjoy it and others don’t do it at all. It’s a journey of self pleasure for sure. How old are you?

Yes very normal

Used to then got with my partner and now I just want him lol

I felt a lot of shame surrounding it when I was younger so I didn’t like it — but now I’ve learned to embrace it and explore my body! Is there a specific reason you don’t like it?

Well if you’re just rubbing or trying to stimulate yourself with your hands, that makes sense to not enjoy it. That does absolutely nothing for me. Especially just staring at the wall. But as I’ve gotten older (about to be 35), I’ve learned that not only do I need to use a toy but also I need to be watching something as well. It only takes about 5 minutes for me it’s worth it. Maybe I can swing a powerful vibrator solo but that’s always a hit or miss. Hope this helps! ❤️