Me and my bf broke up. All our relationship he knew that I didn’t want him to ejaculate in me until I am married and I told him this. He did it anyways a few weeks before we broke up. I started crying and he said he couldn’t pull out so he can’t make me finish. I can’t help but feel taken advantage of. I don’t know what to even do.

You were right to make your decision to end things. Relationships are about mutual trust and respect and if that line was crossed I understand you making the decision you did. I can understand feeling taken advantage of, like the trust was overstepped and there maybe being a lack of care to know why it’s not something you wanted. It’s a lot of weight from the stress and concern to avoid pregnancy when we don’t want it or other complications from sex.

It’s definitely better that you ended that relationship for yourself and safety. It’s very concerning that he couldn’t respect ur wishes and doesn’t care about potentially getting you pregnant. He sounds like a major red flag!!

I am sorry this happened to you and that he could not respect your wishes. Take time to focus on you, do the things you like and pamper yourself! It’s so important that you heal from what he did to you. Not everyone is like this, only asses like him. If older men like him (36) aren’t settled then there is a good reason for that. Women don’t want men who are selfish and cannot take accountability. Let me guess.. it was his idea not to use a condom as well? This guy is an ass. I understand that you’re hurt, and you will definitely have to process it all, but it is for the better that it ended once and for all and once you are ready you can find someone that isn’t out to disrespect and hurt you.