Sex and birthcontrol related discussion and question! My vagina she don’t wanna work I’ve been struggling with mental and physical arousal full dry spell. And while I’ve had a STRESSFUL year that could be the root of the problem, I just wanted to ask other women would it be worth it to just stop taking BC for a while? I’ve been on apri for 6 years now and have always struggled getting wet but now my sex tank is just empty. No sex drive here I like masturbating but the funny thing is I’m not exactly in the mood when I start but I can finish but I have this feeling like dang I should flick the bean. As if I’m making appointments with myself 😂. I’ve been struggling with sex and my sexuality for a while and don’t know where to start with my healthy relationship with sex and my body. I want to do therapy but also I have big beef with therapy and I want to talk about it with my doctor. But I’d like the experience and opinions of other women. Have you had major dry spells? Was it mental health related? Was it bc related? What helped you get through it? Could my vaginal health be the issue? How long would it take for mental and physical results to return to normal if I stop taking bc?

Omg!! This is so me right now. My bodies libido has been messed up for a couple months and I have to hype myself to have sex, once i’m having sex i’m really into it but the thought of it my body doesn’t get excited, I also never have the urge to masterbate anymore which i’m not sure is normal or not for myself