Is there a nice way to ask someone if they have been tested or if they have and STDs?. Me and this guy really want to hookup but he’s had multiple bodies and I am just trying to keep myself safe but for some reason I feel like he is going to get offended if I ask?

If he gets offended over it then it’s not someone you would want to be involved with. Just ask him and if he is difficult or offended just cut contact.

^ there’s not really a ‘nice’ way to ask but imo this is a topic you need to be open and clear with, “have you been tested for STIs recently?” Or “here’s an email showing my last STI check came up clear, how about you?” If he’s offended then he’s probably never asked or been asked that question before, and if that’s the case then you don’t want to have sex with him anyway 🙃

The best way to ask is to be casual and treat it as a normal thing imo (as it should be.) You can just ask "hey when was the last time you had an STI test?" And then you can share your last test date and results. I agree with everyone else, if he takes offense then he's not a good person to have sex with

Same as everyone else. If you’re going to be sleeping with someone new. It’s wise and a responsible question to ask. Just be up front about it cause you’ll have to get use to it anyways with new partners. — Hey I would love to hookup but before we do I wanna make sure to keep both of us safe, have you been tested recently? When was the last time you were tested for stds? I was tested recently and wanted to share my results with you because we’re thinking of having sex. What’s your status look like? Hey just wanting to let you know I’m free of any STDs/STIs I got checked the other day cause we discussed us possibly having sex. Wbu? Etc etc. It’s not ‘nice’ it’s mature.