i just had anal sex for the first time and it came out with a little bit of poop like mixed with the lube and it started smelling really bad obviously like poop and he told me it was fine that it’s okay and i just felt so embarrassed that i almost cried. i get that this things can happen but what do you think about it? i did prepare before and i was cleaning myself. also he told me that he isn’t like grossed out, he was very understanding and he even comforted me but idk i feel super bad and ashamed

When you do anal, poop is always a possibility, that's just how the body works. There's truly nothing to feel ashamed about, your body was just functioning as normal. Sex is a messy act anyway, there are always bodily fluids involved.

If you’re doing anal, there’s a chance of that happening. 🤷🏽‍♀️ it just kinda comes with the act. It’s normal and nothing to be ashamed of. He reacted really well and that’s a good sign he’s aware of what could happen and mature about it. Someone who would have reacted the opposite is not someone you wanna do anal with, right. Just have wipes handy next time. A towel or something to use to clean up. It was your first time so don’t stress but just know yeah, that could totally happen boo. Maybe do more research on it before you do it again. My question is though, did you enjoy the anal? Lol

@stinaaa it felt good in a weird way you know? but now i think about it my brains goes to the poop and the thing is it was mixed wit the lube so just like drops fell out but still i get really really gross about it. the good thing is that he didn’t and he even helped me so yeah. i will be more cautious next time but idk if there will be next time HAHAHAHA

Hahaha no that makes sense! It can be jarring at first. But maybe like in the shower? Idk if that’s even comfortable enough for yall but just an idea to make it an easier clean up if it were to happen again you know. You can always also start off with fingers and toys so you can get use to the feelings and experience as well. Then work your way up if you like it :)